Michael & Penny

You've been fixing your marriage in the wrong order.

Free. 60 minutes. Live, with time for your questions.

Familiarity hides the person you fell for. Pull back that curtain and you see each other with the fresh eyes of love. In days, not years.

Every Thursday at 7 PM ET. Next one: October 29. Live, with time for your questions.

What we'll show you

01

Why it isn't the kids or the mortgage

Everyone blames life. Two jobs, the school run, a mortgage, a dishwasher that's never empty. Of course you ended up roommates.

Then the kids leave home, the calendar clears, and plenty of couples still sit three feet apart on the couch. The time came back. The feeling didn't. Something much smaller did this, and once you see it you'll start noticing it in your own kitchen.

02

Why “Growing Apart” isn’t the problem, even when it’s true

You've grown. So has he, in another direction. You've got things he rolls his eyes at, and he's got his own thing on Saturdays. It's easy to decide that's just how long marriages go.

We've watched couples on completely different paths fall for each other all over again. Neither of them had to change direction. You'll see what changed instead, and why you can't make yourself feel it by trying harder.

03

Why this takes only one of you to start

Maybe you're reading this on your own. Maybe he'd make a face at the word "workshop."

You can start this without him. No dragging him along, no big talk about the relationship, and he doesn't have to believe in any of it first. We'll show you where it actually starts.

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Michael and Penny walking together along a riverside path, holding hands

Who's teaching this

Michael Trachtman is an ordained rabbi who has spent decades sitting with married couples and families.

Dr. Penny Gold's work is informed by her 35 years as a licensed clinical psychologist.

Together they lead workshops and ceremonies internationally, for long-married couples who have usually tried everything sensible already.

You still don't know what it was.

In 60 minutes you will. And you'll know where to start, with him or on your own.

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Free. 60 minutes.